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19-12-2018 12:23 PM
19-12-2018 12:23 PM
christmas Graces
December is a lonely time for me...it used to be my Anniversary - Birthday month as well....All gone now....my Mi is
Schizophrenia Affective Disorder which is SAD....
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19-12-2018 01:21 PM
19-12-2018 01:21 PM
Re: christmas Graces
Hey there @Neo thank you for posting, it sounds like you're feeling super heavy. There have been a lot of changes since your diagnosis I'd imagine. We're here to listen
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19-12-2018 02:27 PM
19-12-2018 02:27 PM
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Hi @Neo
Its a hard one for me too.
Mother's anniversary mixed up with all the communal hope and frenzy.
Dont give up.
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19-12-2018 03:00 PM
19-12-2018 03:00 PM
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Hey @Neo I stay away from social media during Christmas (I deactivate my account) because it is all too hard seeing all those families spending quality time together. I am not even invited to family outings and get-togethers anymore because of my MI (which is also schizoaffective disorder). I am so far estranged from them that I wouldn't know what to say if I ever ran into them somewhere. I've seen them out shopping and they happy smiling faces, makes me sad I am not included because of the stigma surrounding my illness. I did not even know about the existence of my nephew or his name until he was seven years old. Makes me want to shed tears sometimes (and I do) but it will never change. My Dad who is the only family member I speak with now (and only for about 2 minutes every two months) breaks my heart when he says if I come to his house he will have me arrested for trespassing. There is no love or support from them at all.
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19-12-2018 06:40 PM
19-12-2018 06:40 PM
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Hey @Neo another schizo here. I just spend Chrissy with the kidsl. Very low key as no one would have my dysfunctional children over at Christmas. Sad but true .... my mother effectively said as much.... I will be online over the Crhistmas period and I know others will be too. You will not be alone. xxx
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19-12-2018 09:06 PM
19-12-2018 09:06 PM
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Holley Dooley l thought l was reading my own experience...
l hope you have your very own little Christmas moment....
l just keep saying to myself that l have food a home and three hungry pets ( Husky and two ginger cats) that give me company....l was married 34 yrs and got run over by a 2.5 Road Roller twice... 2 was later l woke up hearing stuff....end of my life...
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19-12-2018 09:09 PM
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19-12-2018 09:20 PM
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20-12-2018 07:41 AM
20-12-2018 07:41 AM
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Hey @Neo welcome to the forum. I have some sad memories haunting me at this time of year too. I am also saying goodbye to one of my beautiful dogs today so I'm teary as I write. Pets are so precious. I'm happy for you having your crew. How do your dog and cats get on? My son is desparate for a cat but I'm a bit nervous how my Lab would go with it. My MI is Bipolar 1 plus heavy duty anxiety. My mood goes feral this time of year and it takes all my effort to stay sort of on an even keel. I hope you find acceptance and hope here. I have - it's a retreat for me where I can be myself without judgement.
You may already know this, but it took me a while: if you want to tag someone in a post, use @ then their name. Great choice of name btw. Also, the little bell in the top right hand corner is where you find notifications if someone supports your post, or comments on it, or comments on a thread you've been involved in.
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20-12-2018 03:09 PM
20-12-2018 03:09 PM
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Gday @frog
thanks for your support....