I never grew up with many jigsaws around and mostly chipped in with other people's. Its not been a problem for me. I am hoping my grandson visits soon and can play with the toys and puzzles we still have left over from my kids. Otherwise they go to waste.

Dropped a few hints today.  I think they are allergic to coming over the Westgate bridge.  Suggested I was still available for help when he complained he was busy looking after little boy.  They just have to come off their high horse.  Any way I had a lovely 3 hours with him today ... the biggest hits with me, were him learning to take peel off orange and sorting through nuts and seeds as he fed walnuts to the chickens ... My son had his own 'wins' with him. 

Still praying that being open, patient, mindful, making small effective contributions, noticing the clouds etc, will increase regularity of contact.